Stay At Home Single Moms Club
Are you a single mom?
Do you desire to stay at home full time?
Do you desire to allow your work hours to benefit you daily.. vs just the hours you put in at the JOB?
If you answered yes to any of the above questions.. then the Stay At Home Single Moms Club is offering you membership.
First lets talk a little bit about what the Stay At Home Single Moms Club is all about.
Why Create The Stay At Home Single Moms Club
Well, as I watched my oldest child begin to grow up, I realized that time is very precious.
At that very moment I had to evaluate what I was doing with my time.
I mean really look at each hour of each day.
I realized I spent more hours of my life working to building another persons dream, while my life passed me by.
I realized I had to make a change, not only for myself, yet for my daughters.
The decision to create the stay at home single moms club appeared easy as first. Yet, once I started putting the idea together.. I started getting in my own way. For some reason I simply didn’t feel qualified to help other single moms.
Because God was doing something with my heart. Finally I realized that I have plenty to offer.. because the truth is I only have to offer myself.. and allow God to work through me. Once I became an empty vessel.. the vision of the Stay At Home Single Moms Club exploded.
I’m a member of a few Single Moms organizations, Project Single Mom being one. I realized while volunteering that single moms really are powerful individuals.. yet many are unaware of their true power.
I could sit here and say it’s hard. I mean can’t count how many of my friends have said to me.. “I don’t know how you do it Shalonda.” Or “You make it look so easy”
The reality is.. I’ve been a single mom since day one.. so I really don’t know any other way. This is my reality. It’s my life.. I was raised by a single mom as well… so it’s pretty much what I know… smile
I could sit here and throw out a lot of stats that are available about single moms and the chances our kids have for success yet instead I’m just going to tell you what has actually happened since I’ve become a stay at home single mom.
Now first let me say this.. there are stay at home mom jobs all around.. yet most of them target the mom that is married staying at home, while there is another person who is providing for the the family.
My goal is to see more single moms at home.. PERIOD!
Now I want to tell you that the reason I initially started my own business was because I wanted to hang out with my kids.. yet.. that would be a lie.
The truth is that I NEEDED.. some child support.
See I was taking care of my girls SOLO.. financially, mentally, physically, and spiritually.
And the money coming in was not enough to cover all the expenses..
My daughters have two different fathers, and the oldest’s father had decided to take a vacation on his support.. and I’m not going to go into that here.. yet just know we deal with the feelings that this type of issue causes here in the Club.
My youngest daughter’s father has never helped support her.. and I knew that would be the case while I was carrying her in my womb.
Regardless of what their fathers do or do not do.. does not change the fact that I have to take care of them.
So I actually initially began my own business on-line in order to make a few extra $100 per month.
Really I desired to make $500 per month so that I could supplement my income. I still remember when I actually made enough money to put my youngest in daycare.. I was so excited that I forgot that I didn’t like being in front of the camera and cut this video..
That was May 24, 2010..
Wow.. at that moment I was not yet making enough to quit the job and come home.. yet at that moment I really began to see what was possible.
Look around.. are you enjoying every second of your life?
No seriously.. think about it.. do you love your job.. or is it something you could honestly do without.. Are you alert and and energetic at the kids activities.. or are you tired.. because you gave your best to a job or somebody else?
Better yet are you able to do homework with your kids.. or are you depending on the system to educate them because you have to work and make a living?
See these are the questions that I had to seriously answer.. and no it was not always easy to accept my reality!
Which is why The Stay At Home Single Moms Club is vital.. see you are not alone.. and I know the struggle.. I understand the reality.. and I have the key to that door that you see yet can’t seem to open.
Before I get into what the club can do for you and your family.. look at some of the results I’ve had and why I’m qualified to lead you.. they say a picture is worth a 1000 words.. soooo..
In 2013 I was able to take the family to Disney World in Orlando and we had a ball..
We actually wen to Disney in 2010 as well for my daughters 10 birthday.. The Stay At Home Single Moms Club takes your life to an entirely new level.. smile.
I was able to go to Arizona and climb Camelback mountain.. something I never would have been able to do had I not taken control of my child support situation.
And this past summer 2014 we went to Jamaica.. yes all because of the Stay At Home Single Moms Club I’m able to now travel the world with my girls.
What can the Stay At Home Single Moms Club do for me and my family?
Really it is up to you! See I’ve learned that I can not make anything happen.. See I’m not God.
What I can do is make sure you have the information necessary to become an actual Stay at home single mom.
Honestly, I really desire to raise up a group of single moms that desire to pull up some more single moms.
I see a future where our kids are thanking the fact that this club existed because they had the opportunity to have their Moms around.
Sometimes we don’t realize how much our kids miss us.. we ignore the fact, when we know it is true, because it hurts too much.
We see certain behavior in our kids, and we know they didn’t get it from us.
We ignore it, because it hurts too much.
Well how about we stop hurting and start taking steps toward becoming the MAIN caregiver of our children.
So you are ready to step into your calling!
Then join my team! You are ready to spend time with your children! Join my team!!
You realize greatness!!
Become intentional and Join My Team!! Join the Stay At Home Single Moms Club and push the movement!
P.S. You may want to have a coaching session before getting started.. and that is fine, I understand that as single moms our time is valuable just like our money.. so if you are a single mom, you qualify to have a FREE 20 minute session with me. Click the button and fill out the information to lock in your appointment.
The Stay At Home Single Moms Club desires to see you succeed.